Never in my life would I have imagined the significance of May 20th, 2023. Sure, it鈥檚 the same
week as my birthday, May 14th, but it鈥檚 also the date of the biggest accomplishment of my life:
graduating from college.
It鈥檚 something that still feels surreal to me. Yeah, I knew I would get it done, but to consider the
hardships faced, the long nights put in, and the sacrifices made, it makes it even more special.
That鈥檚 why in my Instagram bio, I made sure I put 鈥淢arquette ALUM,鈥� because that alumni
status hits a little different when you鈥檝e been through some stuff.
If you asked me about college when I was a sophomore in high school, I would have looked at
you like you were crazy. I always knew I was a good student, but I wasn鈥檛 sure if I would be able
to handle the college lifestyle and the work that comes with it. However, joining programs like
海角乱伦社区 and College Possible made me realize that college was the place for me and
gave me the confidence to pursue my dreams.
When the week of May 20th approached, it was a week full of celebration and glory, but also a
time for reflecting as well. A time to reflect on how far I鈥檝e come, who I am now and who I was
before. A lot has happened since August of 2019 when I first arrived on campus. And it all led to
me being who I am today. While I wish the events I鈥檝e seen during my college years didn鈥檛
cause so much chaos, I feel like those moments helped me grow and see things in a different
light.
And to say I was able to accomplish everything I wanted through everything I鈥檝e experienced is
what makes graduating mean so much to me.
Being a Black, first-generation college student from Chicago isn鈥檛 easy. Going into a
predominantly white institution (PWI) like Marquette and having to adjust from the areas I was
so accustomed to growing up wasn鈥檛 easy. No matter how much preparation you get, you鈥檙e still
going to experience the tough ends of being in college. But through the trials and tribulations,
the reason I went through it all finally came to light on May 20th.
As I crossed the stage at Fiserv Forum, my friends and I couldn鈥檛 keep our emotions together,
cheering as we watched our other friends cross the stage. We even joined each other's
Instagram live despite us literally standing next to one another. Yes, we were that ecstatic.
If I said graduating college would be easy, I鈥檇 be lying. Yet, that relieving feeling of crossing the
stage, seeing my friends and family happy, and knowing all this work resulted in something,
made it all worth the while. Thank you, Marquette, for making me realize the reason why I went
through it all in the first place.
